RADICALLY HONEST COACH & CHANGEMAKER
BREAK CYCLES. BUILD AN EMPOWERED, AUTHENTIC LIFE.
I COULD TALK ALL DAY ABOUT MY SKILLS AND THE LIVES I’VE CHANGED, BUT LET’S CUT THE CRAP—YOU’RE HERE BECAUSE SOMETHING NEEDS TO SHIFT. MAYBE YOU’RE SCARED, BURNED OUT, STUCK IN PATTERNS YOU CAN’T FIGURE OUT, OR, SIMPLY PUT, SOMETHING ALWAYS FEELS OFF. BUT IF YOU’RE STILL READING, IT MEANS SOME PART OF YOU HASN’T GIVEN UP. THAT’S WHERE WE START.
DO WE VIBE, AND CAN I HELP? THAT’S ALL THAT MATTERS. BOOK A FREE CALL—NO STRINGS ATTACHED. WORST CASE? YOU LAUGH, LEARN A THING OR TWO, AND MOVE ON. BEST CASE? EVERYTHING CHANGES, AND YOU FINALLY GET UNSTUCK.
NINE OUT OF TEN CLIENTS COME TO ME WITH RECURRING, UNRESOLVED PROBLEMS. SOME THINK THEY KNOW THE CAUSE; OTHERS DON’T. BUT 100% OF THE TIME, IT TRACES BACK TO ONE THING: HOW THEY WERE RAISED—OR NOT.
BREAK GENERATIONAL CYCLES AND RECLAIM YOUR POWER.
SO, HOW DO YOU WANT TO START?
HARDCORE CLARITY SESSION
(A FULL PERSONALITY + CURRENT CIRCUMSTANCES REPORT)
90–120 MINUTES DEDICATED TO YOU—AND ONLY YOU.
THIS IS RADICAL HONESTY AT ITS FINEST. TOTAL MIRRORING. NO SUGARCOATING. WE’LL DIG DEEP INTO YOUR CURRENT CIRCUMSTANCES, STRIPPING AWAY THE EXCUSES AND GETTING TO THE RAW TRUTH.
IT’S A TOTAL GAME-CHANGER, BUT BE READY TO HEAR WHAT YOU DON’T WANT TO HEAR—YET ABSOLUTELY NEED TO HEAR.SOMETIMES, THIS IS ALL YOU NEED.
YOU’LL GET A WRITTEN REPORT ON HOW TO SORT YOURSELF OUT—STRAIGHT TO THE POINT, NO FLUFF, ONLY WHAT WORKS.FOLLOW-UP?
OR ARE YOU READY TO GO EVEN DEEPER? IF SO.
HERE YOU CAN BRING YOUR VULNERABLE, PAINED + UGLY SELF TO THE FRONT WITHOUT JUDGMENT. LET'S MAKE YOU STRONG! LET THE GAME BEGIN AND BE THE CYCLE BREAKER IN YOUR FAMILY! SHOW THEM WHAT YOU ARE MADE OFF.
IF YOU THINK YOU CAN CHANGE WITHOUT FACING THE UGLY TRUTH, YOU’RE WRONG. ANXIETY, DEPRESSION, ADHD, LOW SELF-ESTEEM, TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS, MOTHER AND FATHER ISSUES—THEY WON’T VANISH UNLESS YOU DEAL WITH WHAT’S UNDERNEATH. SUBSTANCE ABUSE, RECKLESS SPENDING, PERFECTIONISM, AND SELF-DESTRUCTIVE HABITS? THEY'RE SYMPTOMS, NOT “BAD CHOICES.” STUCK IN PARENTING STRUGGLES, HEALTH ANXIETY, OR FEAR OF NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH? CHASING LOVE, STUCK IN TOXIC CONNECTIONS, OR DEALING WITH NARCISSISTIC PARTNERS? SAME CYCLE. FAMILY DRAMA, CHRONIC PAIN, OR HEALTH ISSUES TIED TO YOUR PAST? WAKE UP. PROCRASTINATING, AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY, PARALYSED BY NEGATIVE THINKING, OR SELF-SABOTAGE? IT’S TIME TO FACE IT. OCD, FEAR OF FAILING YOUR KIDS, DIFFICULTY KEEPING A JOB? TIME TO DEAL WITH IT.
NO ONE’S COMING TO SAVE YOU, AND NO ONE WILL CHANGE FOR YOU. THE MOMENT YOU TAKE CONTROL AND LET THEM BE IS WHEN YOU FINALLY BECOME YOU AND ATTRACT THE GREAT RELATIONSHIP YOU DESERVE—WITH YOURSELF AND OTHERS.


WHY I CAN HELP
HI, I’M ALEK—A 52-YEAR-OLD, RADICALLY HONEST, EMPATHETIC, AND DOWN-TO-EARTH GUY WHO BELIEVES IN THE POWER OF REINVENTION. MAYBE IT’S BECAUSE I NEVER GOT THE HELP I NEEDED, BUT HELPING OTHERS HAS ALWAYS HELPED ME. IT’S THAT SIMPLE. HUMOUR, MY DOG LOKI, SPORTS, AND RAW AUTHENTICITY KEEP ME GROUNDED. I SPEAK FOUR LANGUAGES—ENGLISH, DEUTSCH, FRANÇAIS, AND LËTZEBUERGESCH—AND HAVE SPENT MY LIFE CARVING A PATH OF RESILIENCE AND TRANSFORMATION.
I’VE LIVED A CRAZY ARSE LIFE—FROM LIVING IN 9 COUNTRIES TO STARTING WORK AT 9, BECOMING AN AWARDED ATHLETE BY 16, OWNING THREE STREETWEAR STORES WITH 47 STAFF, AND HITTING MILLIONAIRE STATUS BY 25. BUT IN 2009, EVERYTHING CHANGED—I LOST MY GRANDMOTHER, THE WOMAN WHO RAISED ME, MY STABILITY, AND MYSELF. MY RESILIENCE SHATTERED. HOMELESS, BANKRUPT, AND DROWNING IN DARKNESS, I DID THINGS ONLY GOD, THE DEVIL, AND I KNOW. THAT’S WHEN I REALISED SOMETHING HAD TO CHANGE. MY LIFE COULDN’T CONTINUE IN THAT SPIRAL.
I GREW UP WITH AN ABSENT FATHER AND A TOXIC, NARCISSISTIC MOTHER WHOSE REJECTION SHAPED SO MUCH OF MY EARLY YEARS. FAMILY DYSFUNCTION AND DRUG ABUSE SURROUNDED ME, AND AS A GAY KID, I WAS BULLIED ENDLESSLY, ALWAYS FEELING LIKE I NEVER BELONGED. THOSE LAYERS OF PAIN—FEELING UNSEEN, UNHEARD, AND UNWORTHY—BECAME MY FOUNDATION FOR RESILIENCE. I UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO CARRY INVISIBLE WOUNDS AND TO FEEL LIKE YOU’RE WALKING THROUGH LIFE ALONE, TRYING TO MAKE SENSE OF IT ALL.
ONE OF THE MOST DAMAGING PATTERNS I CARRIED WAS SEEKING PARTNERS WHO I EXPECTED TO LOVE ME THE WAY MY MOTHER NEVER COULD. THAT NEED FOR VALIDATION AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE LED ME TO ATTRACT TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS—PARTNERS WHO MIRRORED THE REJECTION AND CHAOS I GREW UP WITH. BREAKING THAT CYCLE HAS BEEN ONE OF THE HARDEST, YET MOST TRANSFORMATIVE JOURNEYS OF MY LIFE. THIS ALSO MEANT THAT I KEPT MYSELF IN THE VICTIM ROLE FOR FAR TOO LONG, LIMITING MY LIFE ENDLESSLY AND PREVENTING MYSELF FROM STEPPING INTO MY FULL POTENTIAL.
AFTER SEVEN HARROWING YEARS, I BEGAN TO REBUILD AT THE AGE OF 44—AS A BODYWORKER, AUTHOR, COACH, AND CREATOR. I HAD TO CONFRONT EVERY PIECE OF MY PAST TO RECLAIM MY LIFE AND REWRITE MY STORY. IT WASN’T AN EASY JOURNEY, BUT IT WAS NECESSARY.
MY LIFE IS PROOF THAT NO MATTER HOW DARK IT GETS, YOU CAN RISE AGAIN. AND ONE QUESTION GUIDED ME THROUGH IT ALL:
WHY AM I GOING THROUGH THIS?
THAT QUESTION DIDN’T JUST KEEP ME GOING;
IT FORCED ME TO CONFRONT EVERYTHING THAT WAS BROKEN AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR BUILDING SOMETHING NEW.
STOP PATCHING THE PROBLEM
ATTACK THE ROOT CAUSE!
HOW IT WORKS + PRICING
READY FOR REAL TRANSFORMATION?
FREE DISCOVERY CALL
WE START WITH A FREE CALL TO TACKLE YOUR IMMEDIATE CHALLENGES. AFTER THAT, YOU’LL GET A WRITTEN ASSESSMENT. I’LL DECIDE IF I TAKE YOU ON, AND YOU’LL DECIDE IF I’M MAKING YOU THINK. I ACCEPT ABOUT 73% OF CALLS.
PHASE 1: CLARITY SESSIONS (4.5 HOURS)
THREE 90-MINUTE SESSIONS TO CLEAR UP YOUR CHALLENGES, FIND THE ROOT CAUSES, AND SET YOU UP WITH A PLAN. FULL REPORT AND ACTION PLAN FOR 750.
THIS COULD BE ALL YOU NEED, BUT 89% OF CLIENTS MOVE ON TO:
PHASE 2: DEEPER COACHING
DEEPER TRANSFORMATIVE WORK FOR 150 PER 60-MINUTE SESSION. MOST GO FOR 7–10 SESSIONS.
PHASE 3: ONGOING SELF-EMPOWERMENT
TRANSFORMATION TAKES TIME. POST-WORK IS KEY. IF YOU GO TO PHASE 2, PHASE 3 IS MANDATORY. AT LEAST ONE FULL SESSION PER MONTH OR TWO HALF-HOUR SESSIONS FOR 3–6 MONTHS.
PHASE 4: CREATE & LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS
NEW CAREER, SELF-EMPLOYMENT, LETTING GO OF TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS, AND FINALLY RECEIVING THE LOVE YOU DESERVE.
OVERALL COSTS
TOTAL COST: 750–3,000, DEPENDING ON THE PATH YOU TAKE.
IF YOU’RE NOT READY TO INVEST IN YOURSELF AND MAKE THE CHANGES YOU NEED, DON’T WASTE OUR TIME. TRANSFORMATION REQUIRES REAL COMMITMENT.
COUPLES, FAMILIES, & GROUPS WELCOME
I WORK WITH ANYONE READY TO FACE CHALLENGES—TOGETHER. NO ONE’S JOURNEY IS THE SAME, AND I’M HERE TO HELP YOU.
PAYMENT
FULL PAYMENT (WITH A DISCOUNT) OR THREE INSTALMENTS (NO DISCOUNT). I’LL ASSESS IF YOU QUALIFY.
PERSONALISED APPROACH
YOUR JOURNEY IS UNIQUE. THAT’S WHY I TAILOR EVERYTHING TO YOU—NO COOKIE-CUTTER SOLUTIONS.
READY TO START?
TRAUMA ISN’T JUST ABUSE OR VIOLENCE—IT’S BEING IGNORED, DISMISSED, OR GROWING UP WITH AN ABSENT OR SELF-ABSORBED PARENT. THESE WOUNDS CUT DEEP AND KEEP YOU STUCK, STOPPING YOU FROM BECOMING WHO YOU WERE MEANT TO BE.
WHAT CLIENTS
SAY ABOUT ME
ALEK IS NOT SOMEONE WHO JUST TALKS, NOR IS HE SOMEONE WHO SIMPLY LISTENS. ALEK DRAWS FROM HIS IMMENSE LIFE EXPERIENCE AND CLEVERLY INTEGRATES IT INTO THE CONTEXT. HE IS EMPATHETIC YET HONEST AND SPEAKS HIS MIND DIRECTLY. ALEK DELVES INTO WHERE THE TRACES OF THE PAST ARE VISIBLE, EVEN IF THOSE ARE THE EXACT PAIN POINTS. RARELY HAVE I ENCOUNTERED SOMEONE WHO CHALLENGED ME SO MUCH WITHOUT ME EVEN REALISING IT. AND RARELY HAVE I EXPERIENCED SO MANY MOMENTS THAT SHOOK ME UP AND POSITIVELY PREPARED ME FOR THE FUTURE. THE YEARS OF THERAPY AND EVEN DAY CLINIC STAYS WERE LUKEWARM PREPARATIONS FOR WHAT I AM NOW ACHIEVING WITH HIM. ALEK HAS GIVEN ME NEW STRUCTURES THAT WILL EQUIP ME FOR ANY FUTURE HICCUPS. AND IF THOSE HICCUPS DO COME, ALEK IS RIGHT THERE AGAIN. THANK YOU FOR THAT!
JOHANN SKIERKA, BLANK SPACES-BERLIN.
I WORK WITH COOL LEADERS, OPEN-MINDED ORGANISATIONS, AND CUSTODIAL INSTITUTIONS.
JUST GET IN TOUCH.
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